About Us

We are John & Stephanie Cardenas. At the heart of our work is a simple belief: every person and every relationship has the potential to heal, grow, and thrive. We exist to guide individuals, couples, and families toward deeper clarity, stronger connection, and lasting transformation.

Our practice brings together a unique blend of professional training, compassionate support, and faith‑grounded guidance. With credentials that span personal development, relationship enrichment, and emotional recovery, we walk alongside you with both expertise and empathy.

One foundation under everything we do.

Whether we're working on your marriage, your healing, or your next chapter, the starting point is the same: you are loved, you are not beyond repair, and Christ is the center of the work.

Both Stephanie and I have gone through our own hard seasons, and it has taught us that no one should have to walk through it alone. That is why we do this.

You don't have to carry this alone.

He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.Psalm 147:3 (KJV)

Book a free call. If I'm not the right fit, I'll tell you and point you toward someone who is.

Our Journey and Credentials

2015 - Ministry founded by John & Stephanie Cardenas.

2018 - John ordained as a minister.

2020 - John certified: Clinical Hypnotherapist; Life Coach.

2021 - Certified SYMBIS Facilitators.

2024 - Enrolled in Married For A Purpose Certification.

2025 - Completed Marriage Mentor Program; Certified Trauma Reboot Leaders.

2026 - Integrated Gottman Method; Added Grief & Loss Training.

Groups and Classes

  • Uncover the most important misbeliefs of marriage

  • Learn how to communicate with instant understanding

  • Discover the secret to reducing and resolving conflict

  • Master the skills of money management

  • Get your sex life off to a great start

  • Understand the three essential ingredients to lasting love

  • Discover the importance of becoming “soul mates”… and more.

Sixty percent of second marriages fail. Ensure that yours is among the ones that succeed.

This resource shows you how you can beat the odds with flying colors and make remarriage the best thing that’s ever happened to you. Do you have the skills you need? Now is the time to acquire them–and build a future together that is everything marriage can and ought to be.

SYMBIS, Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts is also an ideal companion to the SYMIBS Assessment. In fact, if you or your partner is entering a second marriage (and if you are blending a family), you’ll discover an additional page in your SYMBIS Assessment Report dedicated expressly to your situation.

Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts

WHAT’S MARRIAGE MENTORING?

It’s simple. A seasoned and experienced couple (nobody said anything about being perfect) comes alongside a less experienced couple to help show them the way and lets them learn from their experience.

To lead a couple’s group of any kind – especially engaged and newlywed couples – you need to be certified as a Marriage Mentor couple.

Does it work? You bet!

82% of couples report wanting to have a mentor couple walk with them, and research shows that couples who have marriage mentors are happier and healthier. That’s why we are certified through the Marriage Mentoring Academy that was established by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott.

We are certified Marriage Mentors

Our mission

We are committed to helping people create healthier lives and stronger relationships — emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, relational healing, or a fresh start, we’re here to walk with you every step of the way.

Our vision

We are committed to helping people create healthier lives and stronger relationships — emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Whether you’re seeking personal growth, relational healing, or a fresh start, we’re here to walk with you every step of the way.

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Office hours: 9:00am - 5:00pm PT

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info@theparadigmshift.live

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